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Barry Blum

Jewish News VA — Thu, 22 Oct 2026 14:29:11 +0000

Chesapeake – Barry Blum of Chesapeake, Virginia, passed away October 12, 2026.

He was born March 1, 1962, in Norfolk, Virginia to Sheldon and Gloria Blum.

Barry was always a self-starter and embraced everything to the highest degree. In high school he was the tennis champion, and then he taught himself to play the bass guitar where he spent many hours alone in his room practicing with the likes of Stanley Clarke and Eric Clapton. We thought the house would fall down with the constant pounding of the bass. In college he played with many bands and learned how to record, produce, and perform music.

After graduating, he continued playing music with the ever-popular Janitors. He also taught himself to play golf and along with his father, became one of the founding members of Greenbrier Country Club in Chesapeake. He became a scratch golfer very quickly. His strategy was to practice with one club each time to master each one. He was so driven and got to a point where he was almost banned from tournaments as he was such the ringer. He was the owner of the snack bar in his father’s Bingo Hall. In his later years he worked and managed a magazine call center and moved on to open his own call center business. Barry had a great sense of humor and had the tendency to be just a bit crass as he basically had no filter. His motto was “tell it like it is.” We had many hilarious, fun moments with him at home in our early years growing up.

Barry is survived by his sisters, Marcie Blum of Virginia Beach (Wayne Doolin), and Susan Blum Geers of Boca Raton, Fla. He was a beloved uncle to Megan Geers and Ian Geers (Lauren Grace Thompson), as well as many other family members.

Barry was preceded in death by his parents, Sheldon and Gloria Blum and his brother-in-law, Hans Geers.

A memorial service for Barry was held at Altmeyer Funeral Home Southside Chapel. Online condolences may be expressed at www.altmeyerfh.com.
The family requests memorial contributions to any animal rescue.

Richard F. “Dickie” Broudy

Jewish News VA — Thu, 22 Oct 2026 14:28:02 +0000

Virginia Beach – Richard F. “Dickie” Broudy, a longtime Norfolk and Virginia Beach attorney, husband, father, grandfather, fisherman, and friend, died peacefully on September 24, 2026, at the age of 95.

Born in Norfolk on December 19, 1930, he was the son of Israel Steven Broudy and Celia Jacobson Broudy. He graduated from Maury High School in 1949 and attended Washington and Lee University, earning his bachelor’s degree in 1953 and law degree in 1955. He was admitted to the Virginia State Bar that same year.

Richard practiced law for nearly half a century, as a partner in various iterations of a firm with his uncles, brother, and close friends. For approximately 15 years, he practiced alongside his son Mitchell before retiring at age 71. His grandson Ross later continued the family tradition of practicing law. He served as a special justice and on a local real estate assessment board. A veteran of the United States Army Reserve, he served at Fort Eustis and as a Judge Advocate General (JAG) officer.

In 1956, Richard married Ina Morganstein. The following year, they built their family home on Hermitage Road, where they raised their sons, Steven and Mitchell. Richard and Ina enjoyed traveling, baseball, and spending time with family. They were longtime members of the Harbor Club and held Tidewater Tides season tickets for many years.

Ina died in 1992. Richard remained in their Hermitage Road home for another 27 years, living there for a total of 62 years before moving to the Summerhouse Apartments at the Virginia Beach Oceanfront, where he became close friends with the staff and considered them family.

Dickie loved to fish and could often be found driving his Bronco onto the sands of Sandbridge in search of a good fishing spot. In Virginia Beach, he was a member of Temple Emanuel for more than six decades and was a longtime member of the Bayside Lions Club.

Known as “Papa” to his grandsons, Ross and Brett, he took a genuine interest in their lives and interests. He took both grandsons to Tides games and regularly attended their swim meets and music gigs. Not to be left behind, he took guitar lessons in his 80s. Both grandsons graduated from Virginia Tech, so Dickie became an enthusiastic Virginia Tech fan and, well into his 90s, played Pokémon Go with Ross. He was very proud of both of them and their accomplishments.

Richard had a quick sense of humor and was curious about just about everything. He was competitive and always seemed to appreciate finding a good legal loophole. He loved his dogs, buying gadgets online, fishing, and baseball, but most of all he enjoyed being around his family and friends.

Richard was preceded in death by his parents, Israel and Celia Broudy; his wife, Ina Morganstein Broudy; and his brother, J. Robert Broudy.
He is survived by his sons, Steve Broudy (Stacy) and Mitchell Broudy (Jean); grandsons Ross and Brett Broudy; Ross’s fiancée, Brittany Adams; Jean’s daughters, Kate and Jenny; and extended family.

A graveside funeral service was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk.

Memorial donations may be made to:
The Virginia Beach Volunteer Rescue Squad: https://vbvrs.org/DONATE-FORM/;
Jewish Family Service of Tidewater: https://jfshamptonroads.org/how-to-help/donate/; or
Dozoretz Hospice House of Hampton Roads: https://hospicehousehr.org/giving/

Dickie lived a long and full life, surrounded by family, friends, and many of the interests he enjoyed throughout the years. He will be remembered as a devoted husband and father, a proud Papa, a dedicated attorney, and a man who never lost his curiosity about the world around him.

Matthew Julian Gutterman

Jewish News VA — Thu, 22 Oct 2026 14:26:37 +0000

Norfolk – It is with deep sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of our beloved Matthew Julian Gutterman on October 12, 2026.

Born in Norfolk on May 8, 2000, Matthew was the son of Marc D. Gutterman and Theresa L. Gutterman.

Matthew was an Eagle Scout and graduated from Maury High School. Matthew was a kind, sweet, and generous soul whose heart was as big as his love for the people around him. A hard worker with a selfless spirit, he was the kind of person who would drop everything to lend a helping hand to a friend or neighbor in need. His kindness was genuine, his friendship was treasured, and his presence touched the lives of so many. Matthew was deeply loved by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Matthew found happiness in life’s simple pleasures and in the adventures he shared with his friends. He loved fishing with his buddies, catching waves whenever he could go surfing, gardening, cycling, and sharing his immeasurable passion for cooking. But perhaps nothing brought him more joy than music. A true lover of the jam band scene, Matthew cherished attending music festivals, camping under the stars, and making memories with friends.

Whether listening to Dead & Company, Goose, Phish, Pigeons Playing Ping Pong, King Gizzard and The Lizard Wizard, Brown’s Island Band, or the many other bands he loved, music was a part of his soul. The music, the friendships, the freedom, and the unforgettable moments were all part of what made him happiest.

Above all else, Matthew’s greatest love was his family. They were his heart, his home, and his greatest treasure. The love he gave so freely will forever remain in the hearts of those closest to him.

Matthew’s life was a gift to so many. His kindness, generous spirit, love of music, and the countless memories he created will live on through the people he loved and the lives he touched. Though his time with us was taken far too soon, the love he gave and the light he brought into this world will never be forgotten. He will be missed beyond words, loved beyond measure, and remembered forever. His song will never end.

Matthew was preceded in death by his maternal grandmother Aunda Bober Coppa and paternal grandmother and grandfather Julian Gutterman and Marilyn Comess Lacey. He leaves behind to cherish his memory: Parents: Marc Gutterman and Theresa Gutterman; his brother, Jon Lilly and wife, Sarah Lilly and daughter, Ziva Lilly; his sister, Amanda Stark White and husband, Robert Lock and daughter, Marley Qynn Lock; and his sister, Morgan Satoris Gutterman. Matthew is also survived by his paternal grandmother Tessie Gutterman, maternal grandfather Melvin Ryder and wife, Dee Ryder; Uncle Anthony Ryder and wife (deceased) Sharon Ryder; Uncle James Ryder and wife, Janet; Uncle Dale Ryder and wife, Tammy; Uncle Chris Ryder and Aunt Connie Sisler, Aunt Aunda Ryder, Aunt Tracey Ryder, Uncle Brent Ryder and wife, Melissa Ryder; Aunt Renee Scruggs and husband, Wally Scruggs; Aunt Andrea Kahn and husband, Anthony Kahn; Aunt Denise Bailey; and a multitude of cousins and friends too many to list who loved him dearly.

A memorial service was held at the Norfolk Chapel of H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments. A celebration of Matthew’s life will be held 1 pm, Sunday, Nov. 8 at the Granby Theater, 421 Granby Street, Norfolk.

Anne Elizabeth Leitman

Jewish News VA — Thu, 22 Oct 2026 14:22:15 +0000

Virginia Beach – Anne Elizabeth (Heyward) Leitman, aged 94, of Virginia Beach, passed away peacefully on October 10, 2026.

Born on August 24, 1932, in New York, New York, Anne lived a life marked by kindness, creativity, and dedication to her family.

In her earlier years, Anne was known for her love of painting and reading, pursuits that reflected her thoughtful and artistic nature. She also cherished working out regularly at Planet Fitness until the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic. Anne’s warmth and compassion shone brightly in her love for children. Professionally, she contributed her talents as an assistant at a salon spa, where her gentle spirit was appreciated by many.

Anne was preceded in death by her beloved parents, Edward and Anne (Meyers) Heywood; her son, Steven Coyne; and her daughter, Eileen Homsher. She is survived by her devoted husband, Joel M. Leitman; her daughter, Susan Coyne; and her sons, Chuck Coyne, Edward Coyne, Daniel Coyne, Tom Coyne, and Tim Coyne. She is also remembered fondly by other family members and friends who will miss her dearly.

At this time, no services are planned. Cremation & Funeral Services of Tidewater is assisting the family. Friends and loved ones are invited to share memories and express condolences at CandFServices.com.

Anne Elizabeth Leitman’s legacy of love and grace will remain in the hearts of all who knew her.

Martin Gary Mand

Jewish News VA — Thu, 22 Oct 2026 14:21:22 +0000

Wilmington, Del. – Martin Gary Mand, born and raised in Norfolk, Virginia, and a resident of Wilmington, Delaware, for 65 years, passed away the evening of October 8. He was 90 years old.

Marty leaves behind an incredible legacy of family, compassion, and commitment to the Jewish community. He lived a life of honesty, integrity, hard work, and kindness, values his children and grandchildren will carry with them forever.

Marty was an alumnus of Norfolk’s Maury High School, where he served as commencement speaker, a proud moment in his young life. He attended the University of Virginia, where he served in Naval ROTC, was a member of Zeta Beta Tau fraternity, and worked as an intramural basketball referee, all while earning his degree in business from the McIntire School of Commerce. After graduating in 1958, Marty fulfilled his U.S. Navy commitment by serving as a communications officer stationed in Morocco and then back home in Norfolk with NATO’s Supreme Allied Command-Atlantic before transitioning to reserve status.

Marty moved to Wilmington in 1961 to begin a nearly 30-year career at the DuPont company, during which time he earned his Master of Business Administration from the University of Delaware. His DuPont career culminated as vice president and treasurer, and he then left the company in 1990 to join Northern Telecom as executive vice president and chief financial officer. He retired from corporate life in 1995 and focused on his roles as a state-appointed arbitrator, business consultant, member of corporate boards, and co-author of Partnering for Performance. Up until his passing, many of his former colleagues at both DuPont and Northern Telecom routinely stayed in touch, sharing updates on their lives, reminiscing about the old days, and thanking Marty for the example he set.

The greatest gift of moving to Delaware in 1961 was meeting Anita Rochelle “Shelly” Cohen at a JCC event, sparking a courtship that would lead to their marriage in August 1965. Shelly was the love of his life. Together, they raised three sons, all graduates of Wilmington Friends School and the University of Virginia.

In addition to his devotion to his family and work, Marty made time to give back to the Wilmington and Jewish communities. He served as president of Congregation Beth Shalom, the Jewish Federation of Delaware, and the Milton and Hattie Kutz Home. He served on many other nonprofit boards and as a trusted adviser to countless people in Delaware and around the world. For his service to the community, Marty was awarded the JCC’s Harry Cohen Leadership Award and the Jewish Federation of Delaware’s Irving S. Shapiro Community Builder Award.

Marty had a passion for traveling, visiting more than 70 countries and nearly every U.S. state. He loved American history and cheered for his Philadelphia sports teams—especially the Eagles. He was well-known in the neighborhood for his long walks in the middle of his street while wearing his safety vest. His family cherishes him for the years he spent documenting his roots and his life’s lessons, preserving them for future generations.

Marty, who always said he lived a wonderful life that he never would have expected or imagined, leaves behind Shelly, his wife of 61 years; sons Gregory (Becky), Michael (Erin) and Brian (Tamara); grandchildren Emily, Maple, Daryn, O.B. and Alana; brother Jeffrey (Linda); brother-in law Bobby (Marilyn); and many other family members and friends. His parents, Lena and Meyer Mand predeceased him.

A private burial took place, with a memorial service at Congregation Beth Shalom in Wilmington.

The family requests donations in Marty’s memory be made to Congregation Beth Shalom’s Building Maintenance Fund or to the Jewish Federation of Delaware.

Ida Rines

Jewish News VA — Thu, 22 Oct 2026 14:20:12 +0000

VIRGINIA BEACH – Ida Sara Rines, beloved daughter, sister, aunt, friend, co-worker, cat mom, and pure soul passed away peacefully on October 15, 2026. She spent her remaining days in the care of hospice, just a few houses down from Point O’View Elementary School, where she had worked.

Ida was born on June 9, 1954, in Norfolk. She lived her entire life in Norfolk and Virginia Beach and was a familiar face at the numerous local event venues where she had worked. Over the years, she also served in various roles at local grocery stores and at the school with children who brought her so much joy. Along the way, she made many meaningful connections with her co-workers who ultimately became dedicated, lifelong friends.

She loved and was loved by her family, and she selflessly fulfilled the role of caregiver to her brother, Arthur; mother, Rae; and sister, Adele. She was also an animal lover who took great care of her cats, Grover and Hazel. In her spare time, Ida liked to relax with a soda and a few episodes of classic television.

Ida is survived by her sister, Adele Rhodes; her nephew, Andrew Rhodes and his wife Rachel; and numerous cousins. She also had special connections with so many friends and colleagues. Ida truly appreciated her community and those that looked out for her.

Ida’s memory was honored graveside at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk. A memorial service followed at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments in Virginia Beach.

Ida will be remembered as a light in the life of those that met her. She always maintained positivity. She was proud of her accomplishments in life and proud of her friends and family. She was tough. She was brave. May her memory be a blessing.

To honor Ida’s life, consider donating to the American Cancer Society or another reputable charity. If interested in adopting Grover or Hazel, contact the Virginia Beach Animal Shelter.

Rest in peace, Ida. We love you very much.

Jay Jacob Selter

Jewish News VA — Thu, 22 Oct 2026 14:19:02 +0000

VIRGINIA BEACH – Jay Jacob Selter, a devoted father, esteemed electrical technician, and cherished member of his community, passed away on September 18, 2026, in Virginia Beach.

Born on November 29, 1952, in New York, Jay lived a full and meaningful life, passing at the age of 73.

Jay proudly served his country in the military, completing his service with dedication and honor, and receiving an honorable discharge. Following his military career, he contributed his skills as an electrical technician to the U.S. government, where he was respected for his expertise and work ethic.
A man deeply committed to his family and faith, Jay found great joy in being a father and sharing experiences with his beloved children. He was an active and engaged member of his Jewish community, forming lasting connections with rabbis and temples. His involvement with the Jewish Community Center in Virginia Beach was a testament to his steadfast dedication to his faith and community.

Jay was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Lila Selter, whose memory he cherished dearly. He is survived by his loving son and daughters, who will continue to honor his legacy of love, kindness, and commitment to family.

A graveside service was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk, officiated by Rabbi Levi, who paid tribute to Jay’s life and legacy.

Jay Jacob Selter will be remembered for his unwavering devotion to his family, his service to his country, and his contributions to his community. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.

Shirley Chernitzer

Jewish News VA — Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:58:10 +0000

Chesapeake – Shirley B. Chernitzer, 89, of Chesapeake, Virginia, passed away peacefully with family at her side on September 18, 2026.
She was born May 24, 1937, in Norfolk, Virginia, and remained a lifelong Virginian.

A 1955 graduate of Maury High School in Norfolk, Shirley dedicated her working life to serving in local schools. She worked with special needs children at Little Creek Primary School as well as served as a library assistant at Booker T. Washington High School. Shirley later worked as an administrative assistant at Lake Taylor Middle School and Southeastern Cooperative Educational Programs (SECEP). She retired in 1999. Her work in education inspired two generations of educators in the family.

Most of all, she cherished her role as a wife, mother, “Meemee,” and “Great Meemee.” Her family was the center of her world, and her boundless energy left a positive impact on everyone who knew her.

Shirley was preceded in death by the love of her life, Jacob Joseph “Joe” Chernitzer, her beloved husband of 50 years; her father, Joseph Berger; her mother, Evelyn; and her favorite aunt, Bertha Glaser.

She is survived by her brother, Donald Berger (Dorene); her children, Lisa Campbell (Ken); Rick Chernitzer (Julie); and Ross Chernitzer (Vicky). She is also survived by her cherished grandchildren, Drew McMillan (Danni), and their daughter, C.C.; Abby McMillan (Davis); Rachel Chernitzer; Michael Chernitzer; and Dylan Chernitzer. Shirley also leaves behind her best friend of more than 75 years, Frances Higger.

A graveside service took place at Forest Lawn Cemetery, Norfolk. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments. The family asks that memorial donations be made to Shirley’s favorite charities, the American Heart Association or the American Cancer Society.

Cabell Barker Cummings

Jewish News VA — Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:57:25 +0000

Norfolk – Cabell B. Cummings, born August 14, 1977, passed away on September 5, 2026.

Cabell was a man no one will ever forget. Throughout his life, he touched the lives of countless people, leaving behind memories filled with laughter, sarcasm, and the unmistakable joy of simply being Cabell.

From the halls of Norview High School to the grounds of Cape Henry Collegiate, Cabell had a way of making himself part of the places and communities he loved. His humor was quick, his sarcasm was legendary, and his ability to bring joy to those around him was something that made him uniquely Cabell.

Cabell had many titles throughout his life, but none meant more to him than Dad. He was immensely proud of his daughter, Karrigan, and the bond they shared. While he may not have gotten to run the basketball court or baseball diamond alongside her, he was an incredible father who gave her his love, encouragement, and unwavering support. Alongside his loving partner, Kassie Verschelde, the three of them shared a bond like no other.

Cabell had plenty of practice being a great dad through his years working with the children at the Simon Family Jewish Community Center in Virginia Beach. As a Youth Sports director and coach, including through the Maccabi Games, he encouraged countless kids to get involved, work hard, and believe in themselves. Every one of those children held a special place in his giant heart, and many of them will carry a piece of Cabell’s encouragement with them for years to come.

A lifelong sports fan, Cabell loved baseball and just about every sport that could be watched, debated, or turned into a fantasy league. He was also deeply connected to his Cape Henry family, where he built friendships and memories that became an important part of his life.

Some of the memories that seem small at first become the ones that last the longest. For his brother-in-law, Matt Verschelde, that included Cabell taking him shopping as a kid—where Matt somehow always managed to come home with the newest Lego sets because he had conveniently forgotten his wallet. A wink was usually all that was needed to explain how that arrangement worked.

Cabell is survived by his loving partner, Kassie Verschelde, and daughter, Karrigan Cummings; his mother, Jean Cummings; his brother, George Cummings; nieces Olivia and Violet; aunt and uncle, Sandra and Don Carrigan; cousin Kelly Barefoot and his wife, Laura; parents-in-law Kathy and Brad Verschelde; brother-in-law Matthew Verschelde; and grandparents Zora and Hugh Parker and Muriel Verschelde.

He was preceded in death by his Granny, Virginia Waddill; Papa Cary Waddill; and Grandfather Verschelde, who were undoubtedly ready to welcome him when he arrived.

Rather than a traditional farewell, Cabell’s family will celebrate his life with a party honoring the spirit of the man he was. His life was filled with family, friendship, sports, children, laughter, and enough sarcasm to ensure that he will continue to be talked about for a very long time.

In honor of Cabell, Kassie and Karrigan ask that those wishing to remember him consider making a donation to one of the following organizations that meant something to him and the communities he loved: Care 4 Frontline, Cape Henry Collegiate Financial Aid Fund, JCC Maccabi Games, and RAPS (Really Awesome People Swimming).

Cabell’s life reminds us that the greatest legacy is not always something grand. Sometimes it is a daughter who knows how deeply she was loved, a child who remembers the coach who believed in them, a family who still laughs at the stories, and a friend who can make a room a little brighter simply by being in it.

That was Cabell. And that is how he will be remembered.

Betty Glasser Bonnie Hecht

Jewish News VA — Thu, 01 Oct 2026 14:56:02 +0000

Virginia Beach – On September 17, 2026, Betty Glasser Bonnie Hecht, a native of Norfolk, Va., passed away at the age of 95.

Betty was a loving wife of Dr. Herbert Bonnie for over 25 years until he passed away. Later, she married Robert Hecht with whom she spent six happy years until his passing.

Betty is survived by her children, Lily Groh (Barton), Edgar “Pat” Levy (Michele) and David Levy (Susan), and her siblings, Sandra Glasser Tavss (Irving, of blessed memory) and Izaac Glasser (Barbara). She is also mourned by Richard Bonnie (Kathleen), Dr. Marshall Bonnie (Sonia), Karen Eaton (Seth), Dr. Gary Hecht (Muriel), Leslie Hecht-Leavitt (Charles), 21 grandchildren, and 22 great grandchildren. Betty was predeceased by her parents, Celia and Simcoe Glasser.

A graveside funeral was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg officiated.

Memorial donations may be sent to the charity of the donor’s choice.