Jay Jacob Selter

VIRGINIA BEACH – Jay Jacob Selter, a devoted father, esteemed electrical technician, and cherished member of his community, passed away on September 18, 2026, in Virginia Beach.

Born on November 29, 1952, in New York, Jay lived a full and meaningful life, passing at the age of 73.

Jay proudly served his country in the military, completing his service with dedication and honor, and receiving an honorable discharge. Following his military career, he contributed his skills as an electrical technician to the U.S. government, where he was respected for his expertise and work ethic.
A man deeply committed to his family and faith, Jay found great joy in being a father and sharing experiences with his beloved children. He was an active and engaged member of his Jewish community, forming lasting connections with rabbis and temples. His involvement with the Jewish Community Center in Virginia Beach was a testament to his steadfast dedication to his faith and community.

Jay was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Lila Selter, whose memory he cherished dearly. He is survived by his loving son and daughters, who will continue to honor his legacy of love, kindness, and commitment to family.

A graveside service was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk, officiated by Rabbi Levi, who paid tribute to Jay’s life and legacy.

Jay Jacob Selter will be remembered for his unwavering devotion to his family, his service to his country, and his contributions to his community. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.