Toby Ann Grim

by | Jan 18, 2024 | Obituaries

VIRGINA BEACH – Toby Ann Grim, 76, passed away on December 6.

Born on May 12, 1947, Toby was the beloved daughter of Beatrice and David Alpert. She was preceded in death by her parents, her brothers Marvin and Norman Alpert, her daughter Bonnie Ungar Dowdy, her granddaughter Julia Meredith Patish, and great-granddaughter Everly Hope Ungar.

Toby, known for her love of cooking, was the center of family gatherings during the holidays. She worked for over 30 years in the medical billing departments of Medical and Surgical Eye Specialists, DePaul Hospital, and later, Bon Secours Hospital.

She is survived by her daughters, Dana Ungar Patish (Lawrence) and Heather Ungar Cardenas (Tony), her grandchildren Michael Brandon Ungar (Meagan), TJ Cardenas, Lauren Dowdy, Austin Dowdy (Clara), Melanie Faye Patish, Stacey Allison Patish, Jessica Arin Patish, and her great-grandchildren Addilyn Cook, Owen and Rylan Dowdy, Alexandria Cardenas, Lillianne and Mercy Ungar.

A gathering of family and friends will take place in the spring to celebrate Toby’s life. Contributions can be made to the City of Virginia Beach Volunteer Rescue Department,
Virginia Beach SPCA or a meaningful charity of one’s choosing.

Altmeyer Funeral Home.

May Toby Ann Grim’s memory be a blessing to all who knew and loved her.