Abby Jane Buchberg

VIRGINIA BEACH – Abby Jane Buchberg, 74, passed away peacefully on February 22, 2025.

Born to Benjamin and Alma Wilgard on January 21, 1951, in Norfolk, Va., Abby grew up in Portsmouth before moving to Atlanta, Ga. There she met the love of her life, Stephan Andrew Buchberg, and the couple married on June 8, 1975, beginning a partnership that would span nearly five decades.

After marrying, Abby and Stephan moved back to Virginia Beach, where they raised their three children—Brian, Jason, and Lindsay. In 1984, they opened Colley Discount Pharmacy in Norfolk, Va., a business that became a beloved part of the Hampton Roads community for nearly four decades. Abby was an integral part of the pharmacy, serving as Stephan’s bookkeeper and unofficial head of customer relations, ensuring the pharmacy’s success until their retirement in 2023.

Abby’s greatest joy in life was her family. She took immense pride in watching her children grow and become successful individuals. A devoted mother, Abby instilled in each of them the values of compassion, generosity, and the importance of family. She was endlessly proud of who they had become and shared that pride with anyone she met.

As a grandmother, Abby’s love expanded even further. With eight grandchildren and a ninth on the way later this year, Abby delighted in spoiling them and creating memories that would last a lifetime.

As a wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, Abby’s kindness, compassion, and selflessness radiated to all those around her. Abby was the kind of person who never met a stranger. Her warm, welcoming nature and genuine interest in others made her a devoted friend to many. Whether it was offering a listening ear, lending a helping hand, or simply sharing a laugh, Abby made everyone feel like they belonged. Her generosity and compassion were boundless, and her ability to make others feel seen, valued, and loved is a gift that will not be forgotten.

Abby is survived by her loving husband, Stephan; their three children, Brian (Melissa), Jason (Brielle), and Lindsay (Ross); eight grandchildren, Sloane (12), Aiden (12), Ascher (11), Harper (10), Benji (9), Stella (8), Sonny (6) Ozzie (4); and many friends and extended family members whose lives she touched with her kindness and warmth. She will be deeply missed but forever remembered for the love and light she brought to everyone around her.

A celebration of Abby’s life was held at Princess Anne Memorial Park. The family requests donations be made to the Sarcoma Foundation of America. H. D. Oliver.