NORFOLK – Roger Allen Bress, 65, passed away peacefully on October 28, 2025, surrounded by the family who adored him — a circle of love he built, nurtured, and protected his entire life.
Born on February 22, 1960, to Phillip and Sondra M. Bress (Cohen), Roger filled every room with laughter, warmth, and heart. He was a devoted husband, a proud father and grandfather, a loyal brother, and a friend who turned strangers into friends and friends into family.
Cars and racing weren’t just Roger’s work — they were his lifelong passion. For more than 45 years, he poured his heart into Bress Auto, a shop built on grit, craftsmanship, integrity, and community. Behind the wheel, he was absolutely fearless — earning triple-digit championships at Langley Speedway and the respect of every driver who raced beside him. Off the track, he was just as passionate about cheering for his favorites — Washington Football and Dale Earnhardt. His laughter and beautiful smile will be missed always, but the love he gave has made a lasting impact that will never fade.
Roger’s kindness extended far beyond people and cars. He was an animal lover to his core, known for rescuing, nursing, and caring for creatures of every kind — the furry, the feathered, and yes — even the “slithery” ones. His mix of toughness and tenderness was something rare and beautiful.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Faith Bress (Crawford); his brother, Hal Scott “Scotty” Bress; his sister, Hope Bress; his children, Candice “Candy” Bress, Heather Bress, and Corey Bress (Jessica); and the bonus children he proudly loved as his own — Brady Behrman, Shannon Paschall (J’son), and Michael Manuel (Autumn).
His joy continues through his grandchildren — the most beautiful continuation of his story: Hailey Behrman, Hannah Behrman, Aiden Paschall, Bailey Paschall, Peyton Manuel, Joslyn Bress, Abigail Paschall, Alina Donegan-Manuel, and Amelia Marlow.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Phillip and Sondra M. Bress (Cohen).
A funeral service was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery. The family asks that donations be made to a nonprofit that has touched the donor’s life, in Roger’s memory.
Whether behind the wheel, manning the grill, or sitting in his backyard “paradise,” Roger lived with humor, warmth, and a quiet confidence that drew people in. He made everyone feel seen, welcomed, and loved. His laughter, generosity, and zest for life will forever echo in the hearts of those lucky enough to have known him — a life fully lived and deeply loved.