When I first proposed the idea of a dementia café to our community, people asked various questions. Mainly, “What is this?”
Dementia Cafés began in the Netherlands in 1997 when Dr. Bere Miesen, a clinical psychologist, opened the first one at Leiden University. He aimed to create a welcoming, stigma-free environment where people with dementia, their families, friends, and professional caregivers could come together to explore art, music, and conversation, form new friendships, and enjoy a relaxed, fun experience.
If the first dementia café held at the Sandler Family Campus, sponsored by Jewish Family Service, is any indication, the goal was accomplished.
Garielle Little, a sound bath facilitator, created soothing sounds with an assortment of beautiful glass bowls she brought to the event. The result was relaxation and exploration. Participants asked great questions about the bowls and even experimented with other musical instruments.
At the end of the activity, everyone gathered for snacks and conversation. New friends were made and some connected with friends from long ago.
As a certified dementia caregiver educator, I trained the volunteers in attendance. A CNA was also present. The result was a safe, supportive environment where both caregivers and those living with dementia could relax, have fun, and smile.
A café will be held on the second Monday of every month, with a different theme and activity. Check Jewish News for upcoming events. Attendance is free. Register with Julie Kievit, Jkievit@jfshamptonroads.org or 757-321-2318.
Marcia Futterman Brodie of Marcia Trains LLC, is a dementia caregiver educator, certified by Positive Approach to Care.
