Virginia Beach – Gary Tabakin, 70, of Virginia Beach, Virginia, left us peacefully on January 27.
Born in Norfolk, he was the son of the late Burnley and Bobbi Tabakin. He was predeceased by his baby brother Matthew.
A lifelong resident of Norfolk and Virginia Beach, Gary graduated from Indiana University (go Hoosiers!) and received his master’s in business administration from the University of Wisconsin. He spent his extensive career with the multigenerational Meyers & Tabakin furniture company, where he continued the family tradition of doing business in an ethical and friendly manner. Gary carried those values, established 120 years ago, proudly into the 21st century.
Gary’s greatest source of joy was his family. Left to cherish Gary’s memory are his beloved wife of 47 years, Kevin Tabakin and his three sons, Michael, Ames, and Brian (Hollie), as well as his brother, Scott (Lori), and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Friends were an integral part of Gary’s life, and he leaves behind a community of close friends who loved him dearly for his generosity, kindness, compassion, and dry wit.
Gary was deeply involved in Jewish life, both locally and nationally. He passionately believed that the local synagogue was the most important aspect of the Jewish community and he contributed countless hours to that tenet. He was past president and board member of Temple Emanuel where his legacy of service will last for generations thanks to his mentorship of clergy and congregants. Gary served for many years on the board of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (USCJ) where his influence and inspiration helped improve synagogues throughout the country. His support spanned many areas of life important to him, including his advocacy for the LGBTQIA community.
Gary most enjoyed time with his family and friends. He especially loved holiday celebrations (he was the king of Seder entertainment), delighted in good food, and always looked forward to his weekly poker game.
A service was held for Gary at the Laskin Road chapel of H.D. Oliver, followed by a graveside service at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made in Gary’s name to Temple Emanuel, USCJ, or the charity of the donor’s choice.
His family asks that whenever you sit down to enjoy a bowl of strawberry ice cream, please take time to savor every bite and think of Gary.