Norfolk – Gerald “Jerry” Martin Sandler, 88, of Norfolk, Virginia, passed away peacefully at his home on January 20, 2026.
He was born in Norfolk on June 28, 1937, to the late Lou “Lovey” and Anna Rose Sandler. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 63 years, Gail Anita Sandler, his brother, Jack Sandler, and son in-law, Michael Doran.
Jerry is survived by his three daughters: Samantha Doran, Tamara Congel, and Anna Rose Barker; his son in-law Chris Barker and four cherished grandchildren, Jared (Maddie), Leah, Evan, and Barrett. He is also survived by his loving sister-in-law, Jackie Sandler, nephew Greg (Michelle Sandler), Shari Patish, and many dear cousins.
Jerry will be remembered most as an influential, thoughtful, knowledgeable, and steadfast friend who invoked humor in every facet of his life. This was his way of lifting spirits and bringing a smile and laugh to those around him.
After graduating from Granby High School, earning his bachelor’s degree from Old Dominion College, and later receiving his master’s degree from the University of North Carolina, he dedicated his career to being a life-long educator and proudly retired as director of Guidance and Counseling for Virginia Beach City Public Schools.
In addition to this honorable achievement, Jerry served eight years in the United States Coast Guard Reserves as a hospital corpsman, and over 20 years as compassionate volunteer in his community for the American Red Cross and the BeAR Literacy Project; receiving outstanding awards of recognition.
He was also deeply involved in the Jewish community, serving as president of many Jewish social organizations and as a board member and treasurer of Brith Sholom Center of Virginia. His commitments to giving back were shared among other interests and activities he enjoyed throughout his life; most notably, playing tennis, golf, swimming, and traveling with dear friends and family.
He will be truly missed by all who knew him.
A graveside service was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Norfolk with Rabbi Michael Panitz officiating. Memorial donations may be made to a charity of one’s choice.