Norfolk – After a brief illness, Helen Laibstain, 96 years old, died Wednesday, February 18, 2026 at her home.
Born March 3, 1929, Helen was the daughter of Julius and Celia Shulman Cohen.
Seventy-two years ago, Helen married the love of her life, Harry. Throughout their marriage they had been inseparable and very much in love. They shared a lifelong love of music, the arts, travel, and socializing with an array of close friends. Helen loved bowling, tennis, antiquing, old movies, fashion, reading, sweets, and card games. Most important to Helen was her family. Nothing made her happier than when everyone was together for special occasions.
Helen is survived by her brother Harris Cohen; daughter Dr. Alice Werner and husband Dr. Eric Werner;
son David Laibstain and wife Jody; daughter Shelley Caplan, and grandchildren Jacob Werner (Caroline), Dr. Abby Werner (Josh), Andrew Werner, Claire Laibstain (Villey), Julia Laibstain, Hillary Sefcik (Griffin) and Carter Caplan. Helen is also survived by six great grandchildren, as well as many loving nieces, nephews, and cousins. In addition to her parents, Helen is predeceased by her husband Harry, and by her brothers Sol Cohen, Ramon Cohen, and Jack Cohen. Helen will be greatly missed by all that knew her and loved her.
A private burial was held. Memorial donations may be made to Congregation Beth El, Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, or the charity of the donor’s choice. Online condolences may be sent to hdoliver.com.