Norfolk – Stephen (Steve) Howard Pitler, age 81, passed away on Tuesday, March 24, 2026.
Steve was born in Norfolk on March 20, 1945. The son of Julia and Albert Pitler, Steve attended Granby Elementary and Granby High School.
He graduated from Temple University in 1968, and he received his law degree from the University of Baltimore in 1973.
Steve married Janet, the love of his life. He was a devoted husband, wonderful father, and grandfather. He was a confident and loyal friend to many.
Steve was a three-sport athlete at Granby and at Temple University. While at Granby, he was voted most athletic.
He won the heavyweight Eastern championship and placed second in the state. He was also selected as Norfolk’s outstanding baseball player. At Temple University in 1968, he was voted the most outstanding athlete.
Steve went on to attend law school and was admitted to practice law in 1973. Steve was selected as one of the best lawyers in America. He retired in 2012. He also served six years in the Virginia National Guard.
Steve will be remembered for his sense of humor, superior wit, integrity, and dependability.
Steve is survived by his wife, Janet, his son, Damon, and daughter, Evan. He is also survived by Damon’s wife, Amy, and four beloved grandchildren, Theodora, Veronica, Logan, and Lucinda.
A funeral service was held at Ohef Sholom Temple in Norfolk. Burial followed at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Online condolences may be shared with the family at www.hdoliver.com.