Omaha, Nebraska – Sylvia Bernstein Wagner, a pioneering civic leader, accomplished actress, and champion of social progress in Omaha, Nebraska, passed away peacefully on February 20, 2026, at the age of 100.
Her life was defined by principled leadership, artistic creativity, intellectual curiosity, and deep devotion to community.
Born to Jewish immigrants from Latvia and Belorussia, Sylvia grew up in a household that valued hard work, education, and civic responsibility. Her father, a skilled metalsmith, built a successful transport trailer tank business, while her mother became a respected local dress designer. These early influences shaped Sylvia’s lifelong commitment to service, culture, and public engagement.
Sylvia’s love of the arts found expression through the Omaha Community Playhouse, where she performed in numerous productions. She brought warmth, humor, and poise to the stage, delighting audiences for decades and developing the confidence and presence that would later define her public career.
Her entry into politics was sparked by the League of Women Voters, where she was inspired by the intelligence and rigor of her peers. Sylvia’s early work in civic education included a regular KFAB radio segment, delivering informative discussions on elections and civic issues three times a week before the 10 pm News, earning her name recognition and trust in the community.
Encouraged by mentor Tim Rouse, she ran for the Omaha City Council, representing the Sixth District. In a male-dominated body, Sylvia earned respect through careful preparation, thorough research, and collaborative leadership, often noting that having fellow council member Connie Finley helped foster women’s influence in city government.
Her tenure was marked by principled leadership and courageous decision-making:
• She championed Nebraska’s first group homes for adults with mental challenges, standing firm despite public fears and opposition.
• She oversaw major infrastructure projects, including the widening of 90th Street, balancing practical city needs with community concerns, and pioneered making “alfresco” dining possible in Omaha.
• She opposed the recall of Mayor Mike Boyle, emphasizing constructive governance over political expediency.
Sylvia’s political ambitions extended further. She sought the mayoral position within the council and considered a run for Governor of Nebraska, demonstrating both ambition and strategic insight. She understood the societal and cultural barriers women and Jewish candidates faced at the time, reflecting a pragmatic, principled approach to leadership.
Her faith was central to her life and work. Colleagues respected her Sabbath observance, and her Jewish identity informed her ethical perspective. She also maintained a lifelong commitment to Omaha’s Jewish community, supporting educational programs, cultural initiatives, and local leadership development.
Beyond politics and culture, Sylvia was a nationally ranked Life Master bridge player, known for her strategic thinking, patience, and competitive spirit. Her intellectual curiosity and love of games mirrored the careful, analytical approach she brought to civic and civic-related endeavors.
Sylvia’s final campaign was challenged by a hip injury, yet she left office with dignity. Her farewell was celebrated as a “graduation,” attended by both the mayor and the governor, reflecting the esteem she had earned. She remained thoughtful about the future of women in politics, mentoring younger leaders and emphasizing preparation, integrity, and service over ambition alone.
She is survived by her three sons –
Byron Wagner, Keith Wagner (Pat Chudomelka), and Alan Wagner (Jody Wagner), as well as eight grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her husband, Robert Wagner, and her siblings.
Sylvia Bernstein Wagner leaves a lasting legacy as a trailblazing woman in politics, accomplished performer, bridge champion, and ethical leader. She will be remembered not only for her public accomplishments but for the warmth, insight, humor, and integrity with which she approached every challenge and opportunity to serve. Her life remains an enduring inspiration to the Omaha community and beyond.
A funeral service took place at Beth El Synagogue Chapel in Omaha.