Three years after the atrocities of October 7, 2023, members of the Tidewater Jewish community gathered not simply to recall a date, but to honor lives, bear witness to loss, and reaffirm their enduring connection to Israel and the Jewish people.
Surrounding the gathering were 1,200 Israeli flags displayed through the Flags of Fellowship initiative of the International Fellowship of Christians and Jews and thoughtfully planted by Tidewater community members leading up to the event. Each flag honored a life lost that day, transforming an overwhelming tragedy into a visible tribute to the individuals, families, and communities forever changed by its impact. Together, the flags transformed a staggering number into something deeply personal, honoring each life lost and reminding attendees of the families and communities forever changed.
Throughout the evening, the voices of Tidewater’s Shinshinim helped bridge the distance between Tidewater and Israel. Their personal reflections highlighted that the events of that day are not confined to history books but continue to shape the lives of Israelis and Jews around the world. Through their experiences, attendees connected with the pain of loss, as well as the resilience, courage, and unity that emerged in its aftermath.
The gathering underscored a truth many have experienced over the past three years: while the attacks brought unimaginable heartbreak, they also inspired people to support one another, care for those in need, and ensure that the victims and their families would never be forgotten.
Prayers for Israel and her people were offered by local clergy, while the prayer for those serving in defense of the Jewish state carried special significance as it was recited by Adam and Chava Goldberg, whose son, Ari Goldberg, fell while serving in the Israel Defense Forces and whose other son continues to serve today. Their participation served as a reminder that the impact of October 7 continues to be felt by families both in Israel and within our own community. In sharing that moment together, those gathered were reminded of the power of community to provide comfort, connection, and support in the face of profound loss.
As the program concluded, the flags remained standing as a symbol of honor and resilience. Three years later, members of the Tidewater Jewish community continue to mourn those who were lost, honor their memory, and stand with Israel and the Jewish people.
The evening also served as a reminder that remembrance does not end when a program concludes. Through education, dialogue, and shared experiences, community members can continue to deepen their understanding of Israel, honor the stories of those affected by October 7, and strengthen the bonds that unite the Jewish people.
To learn more about the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Shinshinim and opportunities to connect with Israel, visit JewishVA.org or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.
