Traditions are so important for children – giving them a sense of belonging to something special that becomes part of their identity. Lighting the menorah at Hanukkah, for example, is one such tradition.
For 32 years, the Jewish Family Service Chanukah Gift Program has helped families celebrate the festive holiday. The generosity of Tidewater’s Jewish community and others who support the mission of JFS make it possible.
Although Hanukkah is not just about the gifts – it is a time of celebration and joy – children look forward to it every year, along with a few presents. For parents who are struggling financially, it can also be a time of stress and shame. “It is so hard for me as a parent to know I have to ask for help,” says one father of three who receives support from JFS. “But I am so grateful to your donors. Please let them know how much my family appreciates your help.”
“The generosity of the community is overwhelming!” says Debbie Mayer, who has managed this project since its beginning. “I am always so impressed by others who are willing to help!”
Each year, local Jewish children and teenagers fill out a “wish-list.” The lists are selected by generous shoppers who purchase the items and bring them to JFS, or who make cash or gift card contributions so that a staff member or volunteer may do the shopping. Families can also “shop” for free from the collection of children’s books, Hanukkah decorations, or Judaica.
The items on the children’s wish lists range from art supplies and Barbie dolls to “dream list” items like bicycles.
This year, one young boy wished for a new bike. His mother cautioned him that a new bike might not be something they could afford, and not to get his hopes up. On the first night of Hanukkah, the family gathered to light their menorah. After the lighting, the mother asked her son to go to the garage to get something for her. As he opened the door, he cried out with delight at seeing the shiny new bike that someone had purchased and donated just for him. Jumping up and down, he just yelled “Thank you!!” over and over before hopping on the bike and taking it for a test ride. The mother, with tears in her voice, sent a video to Mayer at JFS.
To all donors who helped this child and so many other children and families enjoy the holiday JFS extends a big “Thank you!”
Kelly Burroughs is CEO of Jewish Family Service. She may be reached at kburroughs@jfshamptonroads.org.